A real evening
A lasting weeknight game is usually built from a consistent day, a reasonable end time, and people who know that leftovers are welcome.
A little structure
Try a short format: one set number of hands, a simple snack plan, and a standing message the day before. A ritual needs less coordination than an event.
Make room for ordinary life
When the group loses momentum, restart with a one-time date rather than announcing a grand return. One good Tuesday is plenty.
Keep the promise modest.
This is social guidance, not medical or mental-health advice.